Energy is the currency of the universe. When you ‘pay’ attention to something, you buy that experience. So when you allow your conscious to focus on someone or something that annoys you, you feed it your energy, and it reciprocated energy of being annoyed. Be selective in your focus because your attention feeds the energy of it and keeps it alive. Not just within you, but in the collective consciousness as well.

The Subtle Art Of Not Giving A Fuck

What I learned this past year:

1. ‘Fuck It’ 
Speak simpler and outwardly frequently. Especially with the fellas — The more ‘dumbed’ down the better HEH

2. Cut the bull shiiiiet                             Your self – honesty determines your experiences with others.. Get to the point. Respect your time. Match your effort. Keep your word (seriously NO NO NO to temptation).

3. Relationships and priorities
What’s understood doesn’t have to be explained, labelled, convinced etc. Those who can prioritize are able to focus on themselves without taking away from someone else.

4. You can outgrow people
Protect your happiness and well being. Don’t feel guilty or afraid to say what needs to be done. In other words, don’t be a pussy … 

5.  Trust the process
Allow experiences to flow organically and be content with the outcome. Wins or losses time spent is valuable learning of self.

6. Say yes to fear, pain, suffering … [again don’t be a pussy]
Avoiding gets you no where. Truth is self- growth multiples ten folds when doing anything out of your comfort zone. This is applied to jobs, relationships, dating etc. At the end of the day grow some balls.

7. Take care of yourself in all forms.
A person can love every inch of your soul to the deepest core but that will never liberate you from the responsibility of loving yourself.

Thank you universe for everything in my life and for such abundance as of late. I  am a divine beautiful multifaceted bad gyal with a healthy glow and a phatty growing every minute. Unapologetically, I will not tolerate anyone who attempts to disparage my character. More is coming. I love you.


life’s guuuuuud. now who gon check up on me booo?